Is it bad that I am already getting annoyed with my future mother in law? It seems as though I can do no right. I don't know if this is just my imagination but there have been numerous incidents where no one can do right by her. For instance, today a glass of wine was spilled so she had to go take off her pants because they had wine on them while the rest of us cleaned it off the wood chairs and wood floor. We had it cleaned up by the time she got downstairs and had soaked her pants but she pushed us out of the way and did it all over again even though we told her we had gone over the floor and chairs multiple times. Instead of instructing you on how to do something or the location of something she gets up, pushes you out of the way and does it herself. We really aren't stupid and can handle simple tasks like making pancakes or where the bowls are.
My special diet has been a bit difficult here despite the fact that I explicitly explained how I could not have vegetables, beans, or other things high in fiber. Last night for dinner we had Brunswick stew with lima beans, corn, tomatoes and chicken along with a salad and rolls. I picked out the chicken and had rolls for dinner. Tonight she made a corn pudding with a roast and green beans. She and Drew's father both looked at me weird when I picked around the corn and peppers in the corn pudding. I tried to eat green beans because I know they were canned but I don't think they were cooked well enough so I am almost sure I will have problems. She also told me that Chron's disease is not a result of fiber because her friend has Chron's and has mostly problems with dairy. Then she had the nerve to tell me that the disease is caused by not having enough fiber as a child, as if I caused this disease!? First of all they don't know what causes Chron's disease and secondly I don't voluntarily give up everything that I previously liked eating. Why would anyone choose this? Granted my case is not as bad as many but eating bad things still makes me bleed and hurt. I get enough backtalk from Drew so I don't need his parents telling me I am fine and shouldn't worry about what they are feeding me. I am really starting to resent his mother for doing this.
She doesn't listen to anyone, won't take advice from anyone, and asks a million questions during movies that are very dumb questions.
GRRRRRRR I hope planning a wedding will not be like this and she will stop criticizing me so much.
Tomorrow we will be going to Jason's house for a party and then staying there so that will be a big relief!